早上坐公交车上班。遇到一位售票员，年纪不大，脾气不小，三十左右，说话很冲。由于车上人比较多，每一次他提醒刚上车的乘客往后边走的时候，都用命令式的语气蛮横的大声喊出来，仿佛上车的人欠他几十万块钱似的。一个小姑娘提着一个大手提箱，可能坐得不远，就待在前门附近，准备到站了直接从前门下车。他看见了，先是喊了一遍，“前门不让下，下车从后门走”。那小姑娘说了句，我的箱子很重，这么多人，提不过去。那男子听了，嗓门再一次大了起来，似乎找到一个焦点可以发泄了。提不动，我帮你提，说了前门不让下。提不动，我帮你提。于是气冲冲的，从自己靠近后门的座位，几乎冲一样的跑到前门，然后提起箱子，又回头将箱子狠狠地放下。
说实在的，这个男售票员，其实人并不坏，否则也不会跑过去帮助小姑娘，将箱子提到后面。他只是脾气凶了点，态度恶劣了点，我也很能理解他，年纪轻轻的，就每天只能在公交车上卖票度过。可是如果卖票是他的工作，是他目前不得不去做的事情，而他又以这样的态度和心情来对待这样的工作，受害的还是他自己，每天生活在抱怨和生气当中。
所以，其实这件事给我的启发，就是反省我自己在工作中的态度。人生最好的事情，当然是去从事你热爱的工作。可是事实情况并不是所有人都能够从事他们所热爱的工作。退一步讲，就算是从事自己所热爱的工作，工作中也会有一些事情，是自己不喜欢去处理的。这个时候，遇到不喜欢的事情，不得不去做，本身就已经是一种小障碍了。如果再加上错误的态度，就是进一步对自己获得幸福，追求成功进行伤害了。
所以，亲爱的朋友，如果你是从事自己喜爱的工作，那么恭喜你；如果你目前从事不是自己喜爱的工作，也请你想办法去改变自己的态度，至少你还可以选择自己以快乐的态度来从事工作。
今日阅读：态度就是一切
Attitude is Everything by Jim Rohn
The process of human change begins within us. We all have tremendous potential. We all desire good results from our efforts. Most of us are willing to work hard and to pay the price that success and happiness demand.
Each of us has the ability to put our unique human potential into action and to acquire a desired result. But the one thing that determines the level of our potential, that produces the intensity of our activity, and that predicts the quality of the result we receive is our attitude.
Attitude determines how much of the future we are allowed to see. It decides the size of our dreams and influences our determination when we are faced with new challenges. No other person on earth has dominion over our attitude. People can affect our attitude by teaching us poor thinking habits or unintentionally misinforming us or providing us with negative sources of influence, but no one can control our attitude unless we voluntarily surrender that control.
No one else "makes us angry." We make ourselves angry when we surrender control of our attitude. What someone else may have done is irrelevant. We choose, not they. They merely put our attitude to a test. If we select a volatile attitude by becoming hostile, angry, jealous or suspicious, then we have failed the test. If we condemn ourselves by believing that we are unworthy, then again, we have failed the test.
If we care at all about ourselves, then we must accept full responsibility for our own feelings. We must learn to guard against those feelings that have the capacity to lead our attitude down the wrong path and to strengthen those feelings that can lead us confidently into a better future.
If we want to receive the rewards the future holds in trust for us, then we must exercise the most important choice given to us as members of the human race by maintaining total dominion over our attitude. Our attitude is an asset, a treasure of great value, which must be protected accordingly. Beware of the vandals and thieves among us who would injure our positive attitude or seek to steal it away.
Having the right attitude is one of the basics that success requires. The combination of a sound personal philosophy and a positive attitude about ourselves and the world around us gives us an inner strength and a firm resolve that influences all the other areas of our existence.
